Organization Videos – A Few of My Favorites

July 28, 2016 By Deanna Piercy 5 Comments

I LOVE to watch cleaning, decluttering and organizing videos. I also enjoy the occasional episode of Hoarders or Obsessive Compulsive Cleaners. Okay, maybe more than “occasional”. 😉

I find these interesting and often inspiring. And I’ve learned some good tips from watching them.

I’m about to embark on a decluttering and organizing challenge of my own so I have been watching videos on these topics the past few days. I thought I’d share a few that I’ve found helpful and inspiring.

Organization Videos

This first one is the start of a 31 day decluttering program. It’s a good place to begin.

2. This next one left me in awe. I can’t imagine finding the time to organize my entire house to this level but it would be awesome!

3. A fairly short overview of 5 easy ways to declutter:

4. Once your house is clean and organized, you’ll want to keep it that way:

5. How about a 12 day clutter-busting plan? Here is Day One:

There are multiplied thousands of similar videos on YouTube. Enough to keep me watching rather than doing for ages!

I’ve found that the best way to make myself stick with something is to get others on board with me and hold myself accountable to them. I’m sadly lax about letting myself down but quite good at keeping my commitments to others.

So here’s the deal. I’m going to be starting a decluttering/organization challenge soon. I’m still working out the details but as soon as I have it all fleshed out I’ll let you know. I hope a number of you will decide to do this with me.

In the meantime, if you have any favorite decluttering and/or organizing videos or other online resources to recommend, please leave me a link in the comments.

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Why I’m Bringing Back the House Dress

July 5, 2016 By Deanna Piercy 28 Comments

When I think about my childhood, Grandma was a big part of it. And in my mind’s eye she’s wearing a house dress. Are you familiar with that term?

Housedress: an informal dress that is usually worn only while cleaning or doing other housework

My mom generally wore jeans, casual slacks or shorts around the house but Grandma was always in a house dress. Lightweight, cotton, easily washed – house dresses were the ultimate in practicality. We lived in the desert of Southern California where it is often hot so these cool dresses were no doubt the most comfortable option for at-home wear. Grandma spent her days doing housework, cooking, watering (a daily chore in the dry desert), and taking care of the many grandchildren in and out of her house all day. She often had an apron on over her dress, as well.

Much as I adored my grandmother and admired her greatly, I’ll be the first to admit that she wasn’t stylish. Her appearance was neat and tidy but there were no frills. Her hair was often held in place by a hairnet, she wore no makeup and the only jewelry she wore around the house was the plain wedding band which Grandpa had paid $3 for.

Grandma didn’t drive and Grandpa even did the grocery shopping. Other than church on Sundays and Wednesday evenings, Grandma rarely went anywhere. She had some “good clothes” but most of the time she was in a house dress.

There were two basic types of house dresses:

A loose-fitting, rather boxy style which zipped or snapped up the front – This is what she would wear first thing in the morning to water the trees, roses and other outdoor plants.
A more fitted style which she would change into and wear for the rest of the day. She often had an apron on over this, especially when in the kitchen.

Grandma’s house dresses weren’t cute – she would have probably called them “serviceable” – but they were clean and pressed. She used Downy fabric softener and often hung her wash on a clothesline so they smelled wonderful. But fashionable? Not in the least.

That’s likely why I’ve never really considered the idea of house dresses for myself. Until recently, that is.

What made me change my mind about house dresses:

I actually do prefer wearing skirts or dresses and find them cooler and more comfortable than pants. My usual warm-weather “uniform” is a mid-calf or longer skirt with a tank top and Birkenstock sandals. I have several cute skirts and this is what I normally wear in the summer. I have dressier versions for church and dinners out; more casual ones for everyday wear.

However, there are many days when I don’t leave the house and I’d gotten into the yoga-pants-and-camisole-with-no-bra thing. Which is only slightly better than pajama pants or sweats, neither of which I own.

Then a couple of weeks ago I decided I needed a swimsuit coverup before our trip to California. Unfortunately it arrived the day after we left on the trip. But my daughter and I went swimming together last week so I had a chance to wear it. This is the one I had bought:

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I chose it because it was inexpensive and I love the colors. What I didn’t realize when I ordered it was that I’d found my version of a house dress.

After returning home from our swim, the dress was still a little damp from my swimsuit so I hung it on a hook in our bathroom to dry overnight. The next morning, when I saw it hanging there, I threw it on instead of yoga pants or one of the two maxi dresses I have which are cut in such a way that I can wear them without a bra (at home, only!).

It was really hot that day but the dress was SO cool and comfortable. And I have to admit that the pretty colors were a nice change from my usual mostly-black wardrobe.

That’s when I decided I needed more of these dresses in my life. At less than $25 each I didn’t even feel guilty for ordering four more. David is always trying to get me to buy more clothes anyway.

I can throw on one of these dresses in the morning, pull my hair up in a ponytail or casual bun, put on a little makeup and cute earrings, and then go about my usual day at home. I can work on my blog or other desk work, clean house, walk Shiloh, do light gardening, cook and all the other things I do during a normal day at home, all the while being cool and comfortable. I won’t be wearing these to town but if someone shows up at the house unexpectedly I won’t have to be embarrassed about my appearance.

While I’m never one to leave the house in ratty clothes or with no makeup, I’ve become a bit lax about things at home when I know I won’t see anyone but David. But that’s something I’d like to change. David knows I’m busy and doesn’t expect me to be all dressed up like I’m going out on the town but I’m sure he’d appreciate coming home to a wife who has made at least a bit of an effort to look attractive. Even if I’m still in one of my new house dresses when he comes home, that will be better than yoga pants. I think we, as a society, have become a bit too casual so I’m going to up my game a bit.

History of the House Dress:

I did some research while writing this post and found several really interesting links.

The House Dress: A Humble History – In addition to the post itself which includes pictures of vintage house dress patterns, I recommend reading the comments, too. There’s some fascinating information, insights and memories shared.

1930s House Dresses – A detailed look at the house dresses of the ’30s. Some of these are actually pretty cute!

The Humble Housedress – A brief look at the house dress and it’s relation to feminism

Homage to the humble house dress – Apparently I’m not the only one who thinks we should bring back the house dress.

Housedresses defined women after a fashion – A brief overview of the house dress and factors contributing to its demise

And then there’s this book which is now in my Amazon wishlist:

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What do you think of the idea of house dresses? Are they something you would consider wearing? If not, what is your preferred at-home clothing?

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And what about winter? I’ve got you covered. Literally.

What would Aunt Hazel do? ~ Southern Hospitality

June 3, 2016 By Deanna Piercy 7 Comments

I’ll never forget my first truly memorable trip to Oklahoma. I was about 11 or 12 years old at the time. My mom and aunt loaded up our station wagon and took off from California with me, my two brothers and my cousin on a two week road trip to visit relatives in Oklahoma, Tennessee and Missouri.

I have only the faintest memories of a trip with my parents when I was about three so this was my first real experience with Southern hospitality. And I was absolutely enthralled with it.

Everywhere we went we were made to feel welcome. I still remember being fascinated by the fact that everyone from relatives to grocery store cashiers would say something like “Y’all come back now, ya hear?” whenever we parted. You certainly didn’t hear that in Southern California where we lived at the time.

And the food! Everyone wanted to feed us. At one point my aunt called her cousin when we got to the town where he lived. I don’t recall all the details but his wife’s parents were with them and absolutely insisted that we all come to their house for lunch. We didn’t know them at all but they couldn’t have been kinder. They fed all six of us a simple lunch and iced tea served in mason jars.

We encountered this type of hospitality everywhere we went. Sometime I’ll tell you about the few days we spent with one of my grandmother’s sisters who owned a little country store and lived in the house attached to it. But this story is about my Aunt Hazel and her special brand of hospitality.

Aunt Hazel was actually my great aunt. She was married to my grandfather’s brother, Tom, and they were two of the nicest people I’ve ever known. They lived in a two-story house in town but on 5 acres. It was a simple, comfortable, farm house style – white with red shutters. I don’t remember ever going in the front door, everyone entered through the kitchen door at the side of the house.

Downstairs there were two bedrooms, one bathroom, a living room with a dining area, small kitchen and tiny breakfast nook. Upstairs were three bedrooms and two bathrooms. It was an old-fashioned, comfortable house and I’ve never felt more at home anywhere.

I think of Aunt Hazel often, especially when I’m expecting guests. This past weekend we hosted our annual three-day music festival and had about 200 people camping in our backyard for the weekend. Everyone is supposed to bring their own food for the weekend but experience has taught me that there will be some who underestimate how hungry they will get after dancing for several hours.

Wednesday before the event I picked up what I thought were all the groceries I’d need except for chicken which I planned to get on Friday. Well, on my way to Aldi’s I decided I might need to pick up a few extras – just in case. I started thinking about Aunt Hazel and how she was always able to feed unexpected guests.

She always seemed to have a ham and homemade coleslaw in her refrigerator. There were always a few cans of baked beans in the cupboard she could heat up and a loaf of bread. And her cookie jar was always full of cookies she made from a cake mix and just a few other ingredients. Of course, there was always a pitcher of sweet tea on hand, too.

Her meals were usually simple but there was always enough. No one went hungry at her house.

So I thought about this as I pushed my cart (or buggy, as we call them here in Oklahoma) up and down the aisles at Aldi’s. Even though I just came for chicken I found myself putting a couple of small, sliced hams in the cart. And then a head of cabbage for coleslaw. A few cans of baked beans and several loaves of bread, too. I guess I was channeling Aunt Hazel.

I used to have a tendency to get a little uptight preparing for guests. I wanted everything “just so”. But the older I get and the more I remember how Aunt Hazel did things the more relaxed I get about it. She didn’t get worked up into a tizzy scouring every inch of her house before people came over. She used to say that she had “clean food and clean beds”.

She had a system for those beds, too. Guests slept in one of the three upstairs bedrooms and she had a lot of guests. She could have worked herself to death climbing those stairs and changing sheets. But she solved the problem in a rather brilliant way. She told people that if they wanted clean sheets to help themselves from the large linen closet at the top of the stairs but to leave those on the bed when they left. She just left it to her guests to deal with the sheets.

I’m rather fastidious about bed linens so I’m not sure if I’ll ever get around to using her system but I am trying to adopt her relaxed attitude toward hospitality in general. I’ve got a long way to go and I’ll likely never be as relaxed a hostess as Aunt Hazel. But it’s something I really intend to practice.

Last night I had the opportunity to witness another example of relaxed hospitality. A music event we had scheduled was cancelled due to rain. A few disappointed musicians and friends decided to have an impromptu jam session. A friend offered her home. They only moved in a few weeks ago so they aren’t totally settled in yet. However, this didn’t stop her. She quickly made a Facebook event and invited a couple dozen people. And this is the part I loved. She included this in the event info:

“Bring booze, bring food and some toilet paper cause I think we’re almost out.”

Oh, how I admire that! We had another event to attend first so we didn’t go over until after 9 p.m. We then spent the next couple of hours sitting on their enclosed porch lit solely by candlelight and listened to three of our musician friends take turns playing the guitar and singing. It was a wonderful night and one I won’t forget. All because our friend knows how to practice true hospitality. Oh, and in case you’re wondering, I brought jello shots (left over from our music festival) and a few rolls of toilet paper.

Hospitality is something I want to get better at so I collected a few resources, for myself and to share with you.

I got the idea to write this post last week but hadn’t done so yet. I hadn’t mentioned it to anyone so imagine my surprise when I saw my daughter’s blog post Wednesday. This isn’t the first time we’ve had similar ideas for blog posts. She and our son-in-law just purchased their first house and are still getting settled in. Here is her post about hospitality:

5 Ways to Show Hospitality Without a Perfect Home by Retro Housewife Goes Green

One thing that makes hospitality easier is knowing how to get your house “company ready” in short order. Here is a post I wrote about that:

Company Ready in Five Easy Steps

Many years ago when I had two very small children, another aunt of mine taught a course on hospitality at our church. That is when I learned the difference between hospitality and entertaining. This is the book she used as a resource:

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I haven’t read this next one yet but I plan to soon:

It’s good to avoid taking oneself too seriously and this next selection looks like a good reminder of that:

Here are a couple of articles I found very inspiring.

Friday Night Meatballs: How to Change Your Life With Pasta

Why Scruffy Hospitality Creates Space For Friendship

Finally, while looking for a quote about hospitality I ran across this little poem. I hadn’t thought of it in years but my grandmother had a little wooden plaque on her wall with this saying. I used to read it to myself over and over as a child. It’s probably been over 30 years since I’ve seen this but I still remembered every word:

So tell me, do you enjoy having guests? Do you have any favorite tips or suggestions?

5 Best Tips For Keeping Food Fresh

May 25, 2016 By Deanna Piercy 6 Comments

Keeping food fresh is an important skill for any homemaker.

I’m sure I’m not the only one who feels terribly guilty about throwing away food I’ve allowed to spoil. I overestimate the amount of produce we can use. Something gets pushed to the back of the refrigerator. We end up eating out more nights than I had anticipated. There are any number of reasons this happens.

I also do my major grocery shopping once a month so it’s really important for me to be able to keep produce fresh as long as possible. Here are 5 of my favorite tips:

Keeping Food Fresh

1. Keeping Lettuce Fresh With This One Tip by A Modern Homestead

2. A Vintage Trick For Storing Lemons by Making It Modern
(note: This website is no longer online. Briefly, this tip involves storing lemons in a large glass jar covered with water.)

3. The Best Way to Store Celery by the kitchn

4. Make Berries Last Longer by Pulling Curls

5. How to Store Fresh Asparagus by Urban Strawberries

In addition to these handy tricks and tips, there are other strategies for reducing food waste. Take a look at this excellent post on the subject:

Have you tried any of these tips? What are YOUR favorite food-saving tips? Leave me a comment and if you’ve written a blog post on this topic I’d love to see it. Leave me a link.

Dee’s Homemaking Posts ~ All in One Place!

April 6, 2016 By Deanna Piercy 1 Comment

Here are my homemaking posts, all in one place for easy reference!

I’ve been blogging for about a decade and have amassed quite a lot of posts. When I started Life With Dee, I transferred something like 1700 posts from my old blogs, Tea With Dee and Dee’s Kitchen. I had high hopes of going through all of those old posts, categorizing, updating and adding pictures. Well, that’s just not going to happen anytime soon (Who am I kidding? It’s never going to happen – ha!)

Despite wonky formatting issues and the fact that we didn’t always include pictures (or very good ones) back in the old Blogger days, some of my old posts may still be of interest to y’all. If for no other reason than curiosity. So I’ve included those old posts about homemaking in this collection, in spite of their flaws.

Dee’s Homemaking Posts

These are roughly in reverse order of original posting dates, with newest posts first. As I write more posts on this topic I will add them so you might want to bookmark this post or save it in some fashion to check back periodically. I have done a little updating or formatting for a few of the older posts. If I see some of them getting a reasonable amount of traffic then I’ll take the time to polish them up a bit and add better photos or graphics. Otherwise, consider them a bit of blogging nostalgia. 🙂

Make Over Your Life With Dee: A New Facebook Group

I’m Giving The FlyLady Another Chance

How To Create a Weekly Menu Plan

Homemaking: A Personal History

Organization Videos: A Few of My Favorites

Why I’m Bringing Back the House Dress

Time Management Toolbox

Organizing With Bankers Boxes

Spring Cleaning ~ Tips and Motivation

La Maison ~ Home, the French Way

Creating a Beautiful Life ~ My Bedside Table

Company Ready in 5 Easy Steps

Decluttering Challenge

A Day in My Life ~ A Look Back

9 Steps to Take Control of Your Day

Dee’s Favorite Homemaking Books

The Value of a Homemaker

Dee’s Favorite Household Tools

Kitchen Decluttering ~ Part 1

Kitchen Decluttering ~ Part 2

Ironed Pillow Cases ~ A Little Luxury

A Clean(-ish) House in 30 Minutes a Day

Making Time For Everything

Just a Housewife

Blame it on Lucy

1950s Housewife

Dee’s Domestic Dailies

Back to FlyLady?

A Summer Routine

Some Things Never Change

Labor Saving Devices

Homemaking vs. Housekeeping

Homemaking is Back in Style

An Ordinary Life

Washing Dishes By Hand (a guest post)

My Day as a 50s Housewife

The Fine Art of Clothesline Laundry (a guest post)

A Change of Seasons

How to Fold a Fitted Sheet

A Day in My Life

A Day in My Life…Part Two

What Do You Do All Day?

The Good Housewife Guide

Monday Maintenance

This is the way we mop our floors…

Spicing Things Up

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I occasionally write for The Glamorous Housewife. Here is the post I wrote about The FlyLady:

The Best (and Worst) of The FlyLady

One of my posts was also included in this this one:

I Didn’t Know That! 5 Fantastic Housewife Tips

Retro Housewife Goes Green included one of my posts in this roundup:

6 Amazing Cleaning Tips

I have several Pinterest boards related to homemaking. Here is one of them:

Follow Life With Dee’s board Home Making on Pinterest.

Time Management Toolbox

March 25, 2016 By Deanna Piercy 13 Comments

If the purchase of books made one an expert, I could teach courses in time management. I have been reading time management books since the early years of our marriage. Do I have it all together? Nope. Have I learned some helpful methods for managing my time? Yes, I have. Take a look. Maybe there will be an idea or two that you will find helpful, too.

1.Plan it backwards

One of the first books about time management I remember reading as a young wife and mother was:

How to Have All the Time You Need Every Day by Pat King

The author shared many helpful time management tips for homemakers but one of my favorites is to “plan it backwards”. This technique is really helpful on those days I have an appointment, meeting or other specific time by which I need to have things done. You start with the time you need to leave the house, or start another project, or have things done before dinner, or whatever. Then you plan backwards from there.

Let’s use a common scenario around my house. I’ve been *trying* to take a break in my day for tea at 4 p.m. David usually comes home around 5 or 5:30. I then cook dinner, we eat, clean up the kitchen and then I usually work another couple of hours after that. Because I tend to work late I think it’s good for me to take that 4 p.m. break.

So I use 4 p.m. as the time by which I want to finish certain things. I usually wear yoga clothes during the day in the hopes it will remove at least one excuse from exercising. If I want to be showered, dressed, hair and makeup done when David gets home that means I need to allow 30-45 minutes. So I get in the shower at 3:15. If my list of household chores for the day is going to take 30 minutes, I need to start those at 2:45. And I just keep working backwards from there. This helps me get a realistic picture of what I can accomplish in the allotted time and when I need to start each item on my to-do list.

2. The Ivy Lee Method

Another tip I learned from the same book is the Ivy Lee Method which you may have heard of. Back in 1918, Charles M. Schwab, the President of the Bethlehem Steel Company, met with a productivity consultant named Ivy Lee. Schwab asked Lee how he could increase productivity in his company. Lee asked for 15 minutes with each executive to explain his method. Schwab asked how much Ivy would charge for this. Ivy said to try it for three months and then decide what it was worth. At the end of those three months, Schwab wrote him a check for $25,000 (which was the equivalent of $400,000 in 2015). What was this method?

At the end of each work day, write down the six most important things you need to accomplish tomorrow. Do not write down more than six tasks.
Prioritize those six items in order of their true importance.
When you arrive tomorrow, concentrate only on the first task. Work until the first task is finished before moving on to the second task.
Approach the rest of your list in the same fashion. At the end of the day, move any unfinished items to a new list of six tasks for the following day.
Repeat this process every working day.

By limiting the number of things on your to-do list and prioritizing them, you get the most important things done even if you don’t finish your list. It also eliminates time spent trying to decide what to do next.

This is the one I need to implement more often. I tend to put way too much on my daily list and then am frustrated when I can’t get it all done.

One of the things I liked about the Pat King book is that she utilized different methods on different days of the week. She would use the “plan it backwards” method a couple of days of the week and the Ivy Lee Method every Tuesday. The beauty of this is that at least one day a week the important is taking precedence over the merely routine tasks of managing a home, and in my case, business and volunteer work.

3. Pomodoro Technique

This technique is a bit newer to me. I have used a timer for tasks for years but this is a more structured method. You pick a task, set a timer for 25 minutes, and then devote yourself to that task without interruption. When the timer goes off you take a 5 minute break and then come back for another 25 minutes. Each 25 minute work period is called a “pomodoro”. After four pomodoros you take a longer break, say 20 or 30 minutes.

I wrote a bit about this in my post, 9 Steps to Take Control of Your Day. Since I first read of this method I’ve been using it pretty regularly. I don’t always take a true 20-30 minute break after 4 “pomodoros” but I really do find those 25 minute focused work sessions to be really helpful.

What I often do is use those short breaks between sessions to do a household task. Five minutes is just about the right length of time to throw in a load of laundry, empty the dishwasher, scrub a toilet, water plants, and many other routine household chores. Or sometimes I’ll walk Shiloh during my break. It’s also just right for making myself another cup of tea. 😉

4. Minimum Maintenance

This is probably the best advice I have ever read for keeping up with housework. The tip comes from the book, Totally Organized the Bonnie McCullough Way by Bonne McCullough. Each day you go through the house and spend 5 minutes in each room restoring order. You set a timer and work fast. This isn’t the time for deep cleaning. In bedrooms it means making the bed and putting away items like clothing and shoes. In the bathroom you put away grooming items, wipe down the sink, counter and mirror, and put out fresh towels. The living room gets tidied up, pillows fluffed, perhaps a quick dusting of the coffee table. You’ll need to give the kitchen a bit more time – maybe 15-20 minutes.

This minimum maintenance keeps your home in basic order so that it’s easier to do the weekly cleaning tasks like vacuuming, mopping, scrubbing, polishing, etc. Perhaps even more important, your cleaning efforts last longer. And if you have “one of those weeks” when you just can’t get to the regular cleaning your house will still be neat and livable.

5. Pretend someone is coming over

This is something I’ve done since I was a little girl cleaning my own bedroom. Sometimes you just need a little motivation. You can take this a step further and actually invite someone over or plan a party.

6. Phone apps

There are a lot of productivity and time management apps for computers and phones these days. Here are some popular ones:

And so many, many others. If digital planning is your thing you might want to give one or more of these a try. I’ve looked at a few but the truth of the matter is that, as much as I love computers and smart phones, I’m still a pen and paper girl. Which brings me to my own system:

7. A clipboard and daily to-do list

Back when I was a hospice nurse I tried several systems for dealing with daily paperwork, task lists and nursing notes. I eventually discovered that a simple clipboard works well for me. At one time I designed daily to-do sheets personalized for my life and I keep meaning to do that again one of these days. But for now I just start each day with a blank sheet of computer paper on my clipboard. I did buy a cute aqua clipboard with white polka dots.

At the top of the page I write “Creating a Beautiful Life” and the date underneath. I record my weight in the upper right corner and often track my water intake with a series of check marks under the weight.

On the left side of the paper I write the categories “Home” and “Work”. I list all the household tasks for the day under “Home” and under “Work” I list blog tasks, volunteer work and things I do for our business/non-profit.

On the right side I have sections for dinner plans, things I need to purchase, calls to make, appointments and a section I label, “Personal”. That’s where I list things like meditation, exercise, piano, teatime, reading or whatever else I want to do that day for myself.

Finally, I have two sticky notes which I place on the bottom of the paper:

One has a list of blog-related tasks. These are not time-sensitive but are things I want to work on as time allows. Instead of writing these out every day, knowing full well I can’t get to all of them, I keep them on this sticky note which I transfer each day to the new daily sheet. As several get crossed off I can write a new one.
The other is a series of questions and reminders for myself to help me be mindful of my goal to “Create a Beautiful Life”. As I place this on a new day’s sheet, I read them over and remind myself of how I want to live my life.

I check off each item as I do it. When I make the next day’s list I transfer things I didn’t get done. Sometimes I make this list the night before but more often I do it first thing in the morning while drinking my tea.

I also have a paper planner where I can note appointments, meetings, birthdays, and other such things. I do use the calendar function on my phone for putting in dates for upcoming events but I also transfer these to the paper planner. I’m just such a visual person that I prefer to see it all laid on a monthly planner page.

I have one final “method” that I wasn’t sure I would share because it doesn’t sound very organized. But the thing is, it actually works for me. Want to know what it is?

Sticky notes on my computer. That’s right. When I have little reminders or think of something I need to deal with, I write it on a sticky note and put it on the bottom edge of my computer.

If I’m making the week’s menu and think of a few items I need from the grocery store, I write them on a sticky note. Over the course of a few days I may add more items. I can then transfer these to the notes app on my phone or just take the note with me.

Sometimes I think of a blog post idea and will write it on a note. Or David will ask me to make a call or do something so it goes on a note. Some of these things will get transferred to another system while others will be taken care of and the note thrown away in short order.

I spend a lot of time at my computer so these highly visual reminders work for me. And that’s the important thing when selecting time management tools. It doesn’t matter if a fancy app sounds really cool and comes highly recommended. If it doesn’t work with your personal lifestyle and preferences, there’s no point in trying to make yourself use it. It’s worth trying a variety of methods but once you understand how you work best, don’t worry about the “cool factor”. I really wanted to love OmniFocus. It came highly recommended by a very organized (male) friend. But the truth is, my clipboard and sticky notes work for me. Planning backwards, Pomodoro, the Ivy Lee Method, and Minimum Maintenance work for me.

I will no doubt continue to read productivity books and articles. I may even try some phone apps occasionally. But I already have a collection of time management tools in my “toolbox” which work pretty well (when I use them!).

So tell me, what productivity and time management tools or methods do you use? Any recommendations? Leave me a comment ~ I’d love to hear your thoughts.

Dee’s Favorite Homemaking Books

9 Steps to Take Control of Your Day

Dee’s New Planner ~ Getting Organized in 2016

Spring Cleaning ~ Tips and Motivation

March 18, 2016 By Deanna Piercy 7 Comments

Have you started spring cleaning yet? Or do you spread the tasks out over the year so you don’t have to partake in this springtime ritual? Spreading out the cleaning makes more sense when one’s time and energy resources aren’t what they used to be (um, like me?). However, there is something rather satisfying about having an entire house all sparkling clean at the same time.

For me, it’s a moot point because I haven’t been doing the extra, deep cleaning all along. That means that if I want to enjoy a thoroughly clean house I’ve got to get busy and start spring cleaning.

I’ve spent some time this past week or two gathering resources to help motivate me, as well as some good tips for a couple of problem areas in my home. Let’s take a look at what I dug up.

Spring Clean With Dee

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First up, how about some motivation? Here is a great video by Melissa of “Clean My Space”:

If you enjoyed that video, check out her YouTube channel for more. She’s got some great videos.

Now that we’re all motivated and raring to go, let’s do some planning.

We all know Martha Stewart is the homemaking guru so why not start with her? Here is her spring cleaning checklist, including a printable chart:

Spring-Cleaning Checklist by Martha Stewart

My plan is to start with the master bedroom. Ours is upstairs and since no one else sees it, it tends to get the least amount of regular cleaning attention. Here’s a post about deep-cleaning a bedroom:

29 Steps to a Deep-Cleaned Bedroom by Time-Warp Wife

And speaking of neglected areas:

Spring Cleaning – The 10 Neglected Areas by Premeditated Leftovers

If your time is really limited, check out this 7 day approach:

How to “Spring Clean” Your House in 7 Days by Wrapped in Rust

If your time is REALLY short, perhaps you need to skip some tasks. Here are some things you can let go, guilt-free:

What NOT to Spring Clean by Ask Anna

Once you have a general idea of what tasks you want to accomplish and your time-frame, then it’s time to sit down with pen and paper and create your plan. Here is a free printable to help you do just that:

Free Spring Cleaning Printable by Retro Housewife Goes Green

Personally? I’m intrigued by The Seasonal Scrub by Alison of Brocante Home. I love the idea of slowly going through my home, room by room, and lavishing attention on each area. Not just scrubbing and polishing, but adding those little touches that make a home special.

The Seasonal Scrub by Brocante Home

My plan is to combine The Seasonal Scrub with my ongoing decluttering project, then throw in a few other tasks here and there. I printed off the first month of The Seasonal Scrub a few days ago and read through it. I’ve blocked off some time tomorrow to get started. I’m going to put The Seasonal Scrub pages in a binder, along with Retro Housewife’s printable. I’m then going to sit down with my planner and schedule spring cleaning at la maison du Dee.

It’s going to be clean and sparkly around here in no time!

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Organizing With Bankers Boxes

March 4, 2016 By Deanna Piercy 3 Comments

Minimalism and decluttering and organizing are big buzz words lately. Everywhere you look people are “KonMari-ing” their homes. I’m doing some serious decluttering, myself. But unless you take it to an extreme level you’ll still have items in your home that need some type of storage.

Christmas decorations, out-of-season clothes, sentimental mementos, and any number of other items not in daily use need a dedicated spot in our homes if we want to keep things neat, orderly, and easy to locate.

That’s where white bankers boxes with lids come to the rescue:

Organizing With Bankers Boxes

Many years ago I read about this storage system in Emilie Barnes’ book, “More Hours in My Day” and to this day I consider it the best storage system I’ve heard of.

Here’s how it works:

You purchase several bankers boxes. You can get them for a couple of bucks each at your local office supply store or Amazon has them (I’m an affiliate so if you use this link I get a small portion of the purchase price.)
Label the boxes with consecutive numbers. You can write it directly on the box or use labels.
Start with the first box and fill it with items you need to store.
Take an index card and put the box number in the top left corner. List the items in the box on the card and place in a small index card file. If you have a single storage area that’s all you need to put on the card but if your storage boxes will be in various areas of your home or garage then include the box location.
You can reserve box #15 for income tax paperwork (for April 15th) and #25 for Christmas. Chances are you’ll need more than one box for Christmas decorations so you can label the boxes 25 a, 25 b, 25 c, etc.

We have a very large storage closet (16×4 ft.) with floor to ceiling shelves along one wall and across the back. About 15 years ago I organized it with this system. We were homeschooling at the time so we had a LOT of educational materials and this was a great way to organize them.

Over the years I’ve given away most of those things and my system sort of fell apart. However, I still have the little card file with corresponding cards so I can still find what I’m looking for in the boxes I still have. It’s just that as I put other things in the closet they weren’t always assigned a box and just took up residence on a shelf.

A couple of weeks ago I spent a few hours clearing out some of the excess (can you tell me why I had so many empty boxes in there??). I now have everything up off the floor and onto the shelves. I bought a dozen new bankers boxes the other day and I’m going to make this closet a shining example of organization.

This weekend I’m going to put everything on the shelves into boxes without worrying much about decluttering. That’s part of the beauty of the system. You can achieve a semblance of order in a short period of time without having to make a lot of decisions about what to keep.

Then I will take one box at a time when I have a few minutes here and there. I’ll sort through and decide what I truly want to keep and what can go.

Over time, as I get rid of things, I’ll be able to combine items and have fewer boxes. Because the contents of each box are written on an index card rather than on the box itself it is easy to update them.

I’ll be the first to admit I’m not a minimalist and honestly, that really isn’t my goal. I just want everything to have its place and for me to know precisely where that place is. I guess you could say I’m a neat and orderly packrat. This system allows me to keep my treasures and be able to find them instantly.

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La Maison ~ Home, the French Way

March 1, 2016 By Deanna Piercy 9 Comments

Ever since I can remember, I’ve loved to “play house”. No matter where I was, I nested. At home, my room was my sanctuary and I loved making it pretty and comfortable. Next door at my grandparents’ house, I would play by the hour in a corner of her den, setting up a little “house” in which to play with my dolls. On vacations I would even claim a little area as my own in which to play.

As a little girl I longed for the day I would have my own home. When David and I married, we rented a tiny, one bedroom apartment. Despite its diminutive size and our lack of furniture or much of anything else, I still enjoyed making it a home. We’ve since lived in four additional places in our nearly 35 years of marriage and in each one, I’ve done my best to make it attractive, comfortable and homey.

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From what I’ve read about the typical French woman, home is of vital importance. It is her sanctuary, her respite from the world, the place where she can be herself. The French woman may decorate her home in any number of styles and yet there is always something unique and personal about it. Perhaps because the French value their history and are more likely to renovate rather than demolish and rebuild, there is a sense of permanence in the typical French abode. Likewise, the passing down of treasured pieces of furniture and other items is common-place so you aren’t likely to see a French home furnished entirely with brand new furniture and decorated to look like the showroom of a furniture gallery. It’s more personal…a look that is the result of layering new and old items in a one-of-a-kind way.

French homes tend to be smaller than the typical American is used to, with rooms doing double duty. While newer American houses are likely to have two living areas, plus a dining room, the French woman living in an apartment probably only has one living area with a dining table at one end. While we seem to keep building larger homes with more rooms, the French woman wonders why a family is afraid of intimacy. I thought this quote from Entre Nous was interesting:

“Eventually, you Americans will have a separate room for every person, including a special bathroom for each pet, and your rooms will be so large you will be able to avoid authentic human contact at all costs!” (Entre Nous by Debra Ollivier pg. 193)

Hmm…makes you think, doesn’t it? I’m a loner by nature and value my privacy, yet even I am perplexed by many of the homes I see being built these days. I pretty much quit watching those house hunter shows on HGTV because I was rather put off by all the young couples with only one or two tiny children who absolutely HAD to have at least 4000 square feet, four bedrooms, four bathrooms, one or two offices and a separate playroom for the kids. While I do know that too many people crammed into a small space, especially without adequate storage, can be very stressful, I think we often go overboard the other way. There should be a happy medium, don’t you think? While I don’t have any personal interest in the “tiny house” movement, I’m truly pleased to see that some are beginning to consider smaller homes.

Another thing that is usually different about the French woman’s home is that her living room is generally set up in order to encourage conversation rather than being centered around the entertainment center.

Where electronica reigns in many traditional American living rooms, books are king in the French one, and they’re present everywhere: lined up in built-in bookshelves, spilling onto the floor in small piles with well-worn spines and dog-eared pages. (Entre Nous by Debra Ollivier pg. 192)

Now that’s something I truly share with my French sisters. My home is filled with books. The laundry room is the one room in my house without books and if I thought the cats would leave them alone, I’d probably have some in there as well. And while we do have televisions, I haven’t yet caved in on the issue of a large, flat-screen t.v. for the family room. When we bought this house, we bought a nice entertainment center to house the television and other equipment. When the doors are closed, all you see is a pretty piece of furniture and I insist on keeping those doors closed unless the t.v. is in use. It’s located next to our fireplace so the furniture is situated in such a way that we can just as easily watch a crackling fire as the latest sit-com. I know that media rooms are all the rage but I much prefer our library. We have a separate room with built-in bookshelves, nice stereo system, the piano and organ, and NO television. It’s a quiet retreat from busy-ness and too much input.

I’ve recently had a surge of my old interests in interior design and homemaking. I’m starting to spend more time puttering about, re-arranging decorative items and planning a few changes. David works long hours in a stressful business so I feel that the least I can do is make our home a peaceful sanctuary for him. I’m getting in touch with my “inner French girl” and seriously considering ways to make our home life more serene and pleasurable. I’m sure you’ll be reading more about this from me in the coming months and I’d love to hear your thoughts on the subject.

Creating a Beautiful Life ~ My Bedside Table

February 23, 2016 By Deanna Piercy 16 Comments

Creating a beautiful life is something each of us has within us the power to do. We can intentionally create the life we desire. It doesn’t happen overnight but each step brings us closer to our vision of a life well-lived.

A “beautiful life” will look different for each of us because we aren’t all drawn to the same things. However, I believe we all desire:

1. A little peace in a hectic world

2. Intimate times with people we love

3. Time to dream and pursue our hobbies

4. Daily routines and rituals which nurture us

5. Our homes to be a place of beauty and comfort

Today I’d like to show you a small step I took which encompasses all five of these.

The bedside table. It holds the items we need while in bed. A lamp, the book we are reading, tissues, our phone and any number of other items. In a way, it’s one of the most utilitarian pieces of furniture in a bedroom. Have you ever stayed in very small hotel room which only has a bedside table on one side? Have you been the unlucky person who gets the side of the bed without? No lamp for reading. No place to put your book or phone. No clock. That’s when you realize the importance of the bedside table.

In my recent efforts to declutter and redecorate my home I’ve fought the “I don’t know where to start” and “There’s so much to do” demons. I’m trying to focus on one tiny area at a time. Tunnel vision, you might say. I’m more of a big picture type so this is a challenge for me. But I’m making progress!

I decided to take a serious look at my bedside table and see what I could do to make it more functional and prettier. My personal rule for the changes I’m making around the house is to start with what I have before purchasing anything new. In a way, it’s a two-step process. First I clean, organize and decorate an area with things I already have. Then I make a list of new items I might like in order to take it up another notch. One by one I’ll add those new things but I’m not letting the absence of something new prevent me from fixing up an area.

Here is the before photo of my bedside table:

I removed everything, dusted and then gave some thought to what was on the table.

I need a lamp, of course. This and the matching one on my husband’s table were purchased very inexpensively about 25 years ago. I think we are overdue for an upgrade. But remembering my rule about using what I have, this will do for round one of this little fix-up project.
We may be amongst the last folks to still have a landline but there are a couple of valid reasons we do. This phone (which happened to have been sitting on my desk when I took this photo) is old but has better sound than the newer ones we have downstairs. It’s not attractive but there’s not much I can do about that.
The tissue box with back scratcher stuck inside. Sheesh. Not very decorative. But hey, it’s winter and my skin gets dry and itchy.
I’m embarrassed to say how long that book has been sitting there only partially read. By the time I drag myself to bed at night I’m often too tired to read anything other than Facebook.
The control for my side of our Sleep Number bed.
A candle. Stuck in the corner and never used.
A tube of lotion.

And after:

I swapped out the tissue box for one in the guest bathroom and put the back scratcher in the drawer of the nightstand.
I moved the phone to the back corner and brought the candle forward.
The Harper Lee book is still there but I added one that I’ve read before and can enjoy little snippets of when I’m too tired to focus.
The rose was given to me at the restaurant where we ate our Valentine’s Day dinner. I think I may start keeping a single flower here all the time.
I put some matches in a little shot glass so they would be handy for lighting the candle.
I added a small glass for water and a tiny notebook and pen for those late night ideas I don’t want to forget.

What you don’t see here is my cell phone and that’s one of the changes I’m making. I am now charging it across the room so I’m not tempted to use it at bedtime. There is substantial evidence that the blue light from a cell phone screen interferes with melatonin production and one’s ability to sleep well. I suffer from insomnia a lot of the time so this is something I’m going to change.

In fact, my struggle with insomnia is part of the reason for this bedside table re-do. It’s all part of my new bedtime routine.

Turn down bed and spray pillows with homemade lavender linen spray.
Light the candle.
Turn on some music on my phone across the room and set it to go off after a certain amount of time.
Read awhile.
Blow out candle.
Snuggle with David and hopefully fall asleep at a reasonable hour.

So that’s Phase One of this project. I do have a few items I’d like to purchase for my bedside table at some point in the future, though.

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A clock. We got rid of our clock radio years ago as part of my effort to decrease the amount of light in our room at night. We have a small battery-operated alarm clock on David’s side of the bed but I’d like one on mine, too. Especially since I am not keeping my phone nearby anymore. I’d love something pretty like this:

2. A lacy placemat for the tabletop. Our bedside tables are actually antique end tables which belonged to David’s grandmother. I think they are pretty and I like the fact they have a drawer. They are in pretty good condition but there are some worn areas on top. I keep a crocheted placemat on top but I’d like new ones. Isn’t this pretty?:

3. And isn’t this tissue box holder adorable?:

4. A crystal carafe would be a lovely way to have water nearby for a sip or two during the night. And I wouldn’t have to worry about swallowing a moth or some other little creature.

I did a little Pinterest search while writing this post and found a couple of good pins:

30 Ways to Style Your Bedside Table

How to Style a Nightstand

So that’s the latest project in my quest to create a beautiful life. What about you? What’s on your bedside table? Is it merely utilitarian or have you created a little place of beauty beside your bed? Feel free to share a link to a photo in the comments or email me. I’m always interested in seeing what others have done.

Have a lovely day and remember – you can create a beautiful life, too.