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LWD Book Club ~ Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done

January 1, 2020 By Deanna Piercy 4 Comments

A new month, a new year, a new decade! I’m excited for a new beginning and a new book club selection. I’ve got lots of plans for the new year and a little inspiration to complete them seems like a good place to start.

January book club

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JANUARY BOOK CLUB SELECTION

I don’t know about you but while I can make plans with the best of them, I don’t always see them through. I’m hopeful that this month’s book selection will shed some light on that issue.

Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done

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According to studies, 92 percent of New Year’s resolutions fail. You’ve practically got a better shot at getting into Juilliard to become a ballerina than you do at finishing your goals.

For years, I thought my problem was that I didn’t try hard enough. So I started getting up earlier. I drank enough energy drinks to kill a horse. I hired a life coach and ate more superfoods. Nothing worked, although I did develop a pretty nice eyelid tremor from all the caffeine. It was like my eye was waving at you, very, very quickly.

Then, while leading a thirty-day online course to help people work on their goals, I learned something surprising: The most effective exercises were not those that pushed people to work harder. The ones that got people to the finish line did just the opposite— they took the pressure off.

Why? Because the sneakiest obstacle to meeting your goals is not laziness, but perfectionism. We’re our own worst critics, and if it looks like we’re not going to do something right, we prefer not to do it at all. That’s why we’re most likely to quit on day two, “the day after perfect”—when our results almost always underper­form our aspirations.

The strategies in this book are counterintuitive and might feel like cheating. But they’re based on studies conducted by a university researcher with hundreds of participants. You might not guess that having more fun, eliminating your secret rules, and choosing something to bomb intentionally works. But the data says otherwise. People who have fun are 43 percent more successful! Imagine if your diet, guitar playing, or small business was 43 percent more suc­cessful just by following a few simple principles.

If you’re tired of being a chronic starter and want to become a consistent finisher, you have two options: You can continue to beat yourself up and try harder, since this time that will work. Or you can give yourself the gift of done.

 


What’s better than curling up with a good book and a delicious cup of tea? And when the tea is named
Reading Nook“? Perfection.

Plum Deluxe “Reading Nook” tea blend

Reading Nook Tea

January book club

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  1. Tori says

    January 2, 2020 at 1:23 am

    Great book selection. I hope you enjoy it, and it helps you. I met most of my 2019 goals, so I’m hoping I can do as well – if not better – with my 2020 goals.

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    • Deanna Piercy says

      January 2, 2020 at 3:30 pm

      Good job for meeting your goals!

      Reply
  2. Michele Timby says

    January 19, 2020 at 7:20 am

    I can relate to this. Putting this on my TBR list! Thanks for sharing 🙂

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    • Deanna Piercy says

      January 19, 2020 at 2:11 pm

      I finished it last week and it was quite good. It had some unique ideas.

      Reply

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