Let’s go ahead and get something out of the way right off the bat. While my current status is that of a full-time homemaker/blogger, I’ve also worked out of the home, both part-time and full-time. Even while working I still considered “making a home” an important part of my daily life as I’m sure many women do, no matter which box they tick on a census form.
I have nothing but respect for women who toil 8 hours a day at a paid job and then come home to cook dinner, wash a load of laundry, tidy up, etc. If they also have children the work load increases tremendously. I know. I’ve done it. So let’s put away any hint of the so-called “mommy wars”. All work has value, whether paid for or not. All women have value, no matter their work status.
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The Value of a Homemaker
So let’s talk about homemaking. One thing I learned while doing a bit of research for this post is that “homemaking” is largely an American term for managing a home. I think this is one thing we Americans got right. “Homemaking” seems to encompass so much more than “housekeeping”, the more common term elsewhere.
While housework or cleaning might be the first thing many think of when they hear the term “homemaker”, there’s so much more to it. I know many women who may not be the best housekeepers yet they put other skills to use in the home and are most definitely “homemakers”. Making a home is so much more than dusting and mopping and scrubbing toilets.
Think about the homes you’ve been in where you felt most relaxed, welcomed and loved. They might not have been the most spotlessly clean. The food may not have been of gourmet quality. The decor may not have looked like a spread in Better Homes and Gardens. And yet there’s an element of home within. That’s what a dedicated homemaker can accomplish and it’s no small feat.
It’s knowing how to manage one’s time to ensure that the basics are covered. If you spend your entire day scrubbing the baseboards but run out of time to prepare a meal, home isn’t going to be a very comfortable place that evening. If you decorate every room of the house for the current holiday season but everyone is out of clean underwear, an important element of homemaking is missing.
Balance is the key and finding it requires a lot of trial and error. It’s a skill which I believe deserves honor. In a society which often determines a person’s value by how much money they earn, homemaking rarely gets more than occasional lip service.
Home. The very word speaks warmth, comfort and peace. Home is more than where we keep our stuff. Home is where we keep our hearts. It’s where we break bread with family and friends. It’s where we rest and love and pursue our hobbies. Home is where we retreat when the world has been too much with us. A homemaker’s loftiest goal should be to make the home a sanctuary for those who live there. And in my opinion, the value of a homemaker who achieves this is inestimable.
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Originally posted in 2013 for the Celebrating Womanhood linkup.
I always think a spotlessly clean home that doesn’t feel lived in, because it’s obvious more attention is given to cleaning and decorating than to enjoying the home comforts, doesn’t actually fee like a home.
A little comfortable clutter makes a home feel lived in. Although I do think there is a difference between lived in and trashed. Ha!
Fantastic post… Well said!
Thanks!
Beautifully said! I’ve always loved being a homemaker, whether working FT, PT or being at home. Even as a young bride (just turned 22), I loved making our little apartment a comfortable and beautiful “nest” for me and my husband.
I think some of us are nesters by nature. 🙂
I’m very late at seeing this but wanted you to know how much it meant to me! I’m a mom to 3 (now grown) children. I was never a good housekeeper but I think I was a good homemaker. All 3 have turned out to be adults that we enjoy being around ?
That is wonderful! And truly, that is the goal. Keeping a spotless home at the expense of relationships is misspent focus.
It was an amazing experience to read your blog. Just loved it. Your expression of blogging is so beautiful yet precise. Lot to learn from you ??
Thank you!
This is way past this post but it still makes an impact. In such a crazy world we live in right now, i think homemaking is so much more important. A place my family can retreat to and feel safe and loved. I go threw my ups and downs with cleaning and cooking but i make sure my family always feels loved. All homemakers deserve so much more respect and gratitude.
Aw, this was a very nice post. Finding the time and actual
effort to create a good article… but what can I say… I put things off a lot
and don’t manage to get anything done.