It is well known amongst my friends and family that I’m not fond of winter. Yes, that is an understatement. You can keep your snow; I’ll take warm and sunny. Thank you very much. However, despite the fact it occurs during winter, I do like the start of a new year. A whole twelve months stretching out before me, unsullied by mistakes, neglect or ennui. Ever the optimist, I am always able to envision a year in which I achieve my goals and end the year with a sense of satisfaction.
I’ve been thinking about 2010 the past couple of weeks and what I’d like to accomplish. I’m not ready to list them here right now but I will share a bit about how I go about setting goals. First, I start by listing the various areas of my life. Some of these include:
- spiritual life
- relationships
- health
- intellectual pursuits
- organizational tasks
- creativity
- volunteer work/social justice/community involvement
I then select a few goals in each area. One thing I learned in nursing school is that goals must be measurable. For instance, “get healthy” is too vague. How will you know if you’ve met it? More to the point would be something like “blood pressure reduced to recommended level”. Then I list the steps required to achieve each goal. In the example above, one of the steps might be to get into the habit of taking a particular supplement every day.
Next, I pick a few of the listed steps for my goals to focus on. It’s too much to try to tackle everything at once. I also like to start with some of the easier steps. As they say, success breeds success. One of my blogging friends likes to divide her year into quarters and picks goals for each three month period. You can read about it here. I really like the idea of re-evaluating things every three months and I’m going to implement that myself.
Over the course of the next week, this blog will undergo some changes. I’ll be discussing my goals and projects for the coming year. There will also be some changes to the sidebars, including lists of what I’m currently working on and updates on progress. There may be some design changes, too, because David bought me Paint Shop Pro for Christmas and I’ll probably use my blogs to practice what I’m learning. If you read my blog via Facebook or in a reader like Google Reader or Bloglines, do click on through to the blog itself occasionally because there will be some items of interest other than the posts themselves.
In the meantime, here are some of the quotes I’m writing in my journal to inspire me in 2010:
“And now let us believe in a long year that is given to us, new, untouched, full of things that have never been, full of work that has never been done, full of tasks, claims, and demands; and let us see that we learn to take it without letting fall too much of what it has to bestow upon those who demand of it necessary, serious, great things.”~Rainer Maria Rilke, poet (1876-1926)
“Never be afraid to raise your voice for honesty and truth and compassion against injustice and lying and greed. If people all over the world…would do this, it would change the earth.” ~William Faulkner
“When you realize who you really are, you understand that nothing can stop you from becoming that person. ~Christine Lincoln
“You must understand the whole of life, not just one little part of it. That is why you must read, that is why you must look at the skies, that is why you must sing and dance, and write poems…for all that is life.”~J. Krishnamurti
“It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.”~Alan Cohen
“The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate.”~Oprah Winfrey
“Read, every day, something no one else is reading. Think, every day, something no one else is thinking. Do, every day, something no one else would be silly enough to do. It is bad for the mind to continually be part of unanimity.”~Chris Morley
“Every day that is born into the world comes like a burst of music and rings the whole day through, and you can make of it a dance, a dirge, or a life march, as you will.”~Thomas Carlyle
“To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;to appreciate beauty,to find the best in others;to leave the world a little better;whether by a healthy child,a garden patch or a redeemed social condition;to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.This is the meaning of success.”Ralph Waldo Emerson
“You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your
eternity in each moment.”~Henry David Thoreau
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by thethings that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. Sothrow off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor.Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream.Discover.”~Samuel Clemens (Mark Twain)
“And the day came when the risk [it took] to remain tight in the
bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”~Anais Nin
“This above all: TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE. And it must follow as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man.”~William Shakespeare
“Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal.”~Pamela Vaull Starr
“Isn’t it splendid to think of all the things there are to find out about? It just makes me feel glad to be alive — it’s such an interesting world.” Anne of Green Gables ~ Lucy Montgomery
“One ought, everyday at least, to hear a little song, read a goodbook, see a fine picture, and, if it were possible, to speak a fewreasonable words.” Goethe
“I will not die an unlived life. I will not live in fear of falling
or catching fire. I choose to inhabit my days, to allow my living
to open me, to make me less afraid, more accessible, to loosen my
heart until it becomes a wing, a torch, a promise. I choose to risk
my significance; to live so that which comes to me as seed goes to
the next as blossom and that which comes to me as blossom, goes on
as fruit.” ~~ by Dawn Markova
And finally:
“New Year’s Day… now is the accepted time to make your regular annual good resolutions. Next week you can begin paving hell with them as usual.” ~Mark Twain
bryanmory says
Words of inspiration; thanks.
I was thinking my resolution would be something like "To be the person I know I am capable of being", but that is something that I wrestle with every day of my life.
More specifically, I want to complete my series of dragon fly paintings. Things have gotten held up by the holidays, and I must start fresh and renewed.
New Year festivities have bugged me since I was young. It always seemed foolish to celebrate a day like any other, essentially the first day of the rest of your life. Why wait until January 1? In that spirit, I already started one phase of the perennially favorite resolution, 'exercise more' by bicycling and walking daily (despite the cold!)Even got Debi to go with me!
Have an inspiring, fruitful and satisfying Jan. 2 and beyond! On Jan. 1, just eat some ham, cabbage and black-eyed peas!
B
Deanna Piercy says
"To be the person I know I am capable of being." That just about sums it all up, doesn't it?
I hope to see more dragon fly paintings when we are there in April so get busy. 😉 And good for you on the exercise thing. I am aiming to become very close friends with my treadmill this year.
Happy 2010 to you and your wonderful family. Y'all are very special to us.