It’s that time of year again. Time for people to start whining about “taking Christ out of Christmas” or complaining about other religions and their audacity to celebrate differently. It’s like we think the month of December belongs solely to Christians and heaven forbid anyone else publicly express their beliefs or try to be considerate of others by the use of that dirty word, “holiday”. Which means “holy day” but never let facts get in the way of a good display of outrage. Or how about that silly notion that any use of “x-mas” means one is crossing Christ out of Christmas? No matter that X is the Greek symbol for Christ. Nope. If others don’t celebrate Christmas in a precisely and narrowly defined way they are ridiculed, despised and scorned.
Fortunately World Net Daily now sanctions the celebration of Hanukkah by Christians so we can quit fussing about that one. Yep, we now have permission to celebrate Hanukkah just like Jesus did. (This year, Hanukkah started at sundown on December 1st and as always, lasts eight days.) I’m still trying to find just the right Menorah but we did have latkes last week. Yum!
Now we just have to worry about Kwanzaa and the Winter Solstice. Oh, and Muharram, the Islamic New Year which begins tomorrow, December 7th. And let’s not forget those pesky atheists and agnostics who simply want to celebrate the cultural aspects of Christmas in the United States by putting up a Christmas tree, stringing some lights and drinking eggnog. Does it really affect you personally if someone else celebrates differently, or not at all? When a store clerk wishes me “Happy Holidays” I don’t automatically assume they hate Jesus. Perhaps they lack the superpower of clairvoyance, don’t know what holiday I celebrate and simply choose to use a pleasant, innocuous phrase, much like “Have a good day”. If they have a smile on their face and give me correct change I’m thrilled.
Personally, I’m taking Jesus’ wish list in the letter above seriously and am going to try to do all of them. I have cards sitting here beside me for numbers 1, 3 and 5. I already know who I’m visiting for number 2 and I might try to get some friends together to sing carols at a local nursing home like we’ve done in the past. Number 4 is something we’ve always tried to focus on and part of our kids’ gifts will include a special weekend together. Numbers 6 and 7 are already part of how I try to respond to people but I’ll make an even greater effort, especially with those who are rude or unpleasant. I’m on the lookout for the right opportunities for 8 and 9 (suggestions for a missionary?). And of course number 10 is the biggie. It’s simple yet not always easy. Christ summed it up when He said we are to love God and love others. It’s the second part which can trip us up sometimes but I’m really working on it. I’ve got a challenge in loving the unlovable coming up on Friday so we’ll find out how I do with that.
So, how do you plan to make this last month of 2010 meaningful? What holiday(s) do you celebrate? I’d love to hear about your traditions and celebrations.
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Lisa Sharp says
I saw that "letter" last year, it makes some great points! I personally see a lot of good in all of the winter holidays and I'm trying to do a little something for each. I guess I need to hurry and do something for Hanukkah haha. I did make cookies the first day but they weren't kosher or anything. I'm going to make Yule log cookies for Winter Solstice.
Anyway, all of this fighting really is taking so much away from the holiday.
Kathy says
RE: #9 – My friend Ana works for Sunbeam Family Services here in the city. They host an annual "adopt a family" event–I've already sponsored a family, and that's where the vast majority of my holiday spending is going this year. My friends, family, and I are in need of nothing but attention, affection, and time… other people need material goods an awful lot more.
http://sunbeamfamilyservices.org/help/adopt-a-family/
SJ says
I'm printing this. I'm going to paste it all over the village. It's time people stopped focussing on the negatives and started showing the love. I love this thank you for posting it.
mommy22ss says
Our minister read this as part of his sermon yesterday. I thought it was awesome! Thanks for sharing.
sharon says
I really only hear about this fight online. I guess it's a big deal to a lot of people but I'm glad I don't run across them.
Thanks for posting this. I'm going to share it on facebook.
Happy Holidays!
Sharon
fowler says
That's funny, and I couldn't agree more! Thanks for stopping by my blog!
Cherie says
Thanks for sharing this letter. I just put it on facebook as a note.
Redspect says
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